You’re engaged—congratulations! This is one of the most exciting seasons of your life. It can also be the moment when excitement quickly turns into a long list of questions. What should you do first after getting engaged? Should you choose a wedding date, create a budget, start a guest list, tour venues, or hire a wedding planner? How soon should you begin booking vendors? And how do you know whether you are making these decisions in the right order? Take a breath. You do not